Saturday, February 5, 2011

Hola!! My first week...

Hola mi Familia y mi amigos!!
I have made it safely to Paraguay. I am really enjoying my service thus far. Yesterday was the first time I met my host family. I was really hoping for a large
family with muchos ninos. ANDDDD I definately got what I was hoping for!! There are 10 people in my host family!!! I was worried when they got to my envelope and it had a
 bright orange post-it attached. It was because I have such a large family and my host mother and father are both dissabled (my host father is in a wheel chair and mi madre
is blind.) However, my host sister actsas my host mother. T
She is VERY helpful and understanding of my limited espanol. I was feeling like a dumb-ass since every fifth comment out of my mouth was "no entiendo" but she told me that
I speak/understand more than her last volunteer (she has hosted two others.) She said it is completely normal for me to not be that good yet and that it would come easily.
I showed her my textbook for spanish and told her that the book was "muy importante, si?" and laughed. She laughed and reassured me that she could teach me whatever I
needed to know. My host family is all-around wonderful! There are a lot of kids but I have been spending a lot of time with Fabrizio (he is 2) and Jaquleen (she is 5.)
I like them the most because a.) I am learning a language with Fabrizio and b.) Jaquleen puts up with my lack of language skills because I give her bubbles.
My host sister made pizza...which was probably the best pizza I hvae ever had. I have to say, though, I was not expecting to eat pizza with my host family on the first night.
SIDE NOTE: We spent our first night in Paraguay at a retreat center. At this center they told us to go ahead and drink the water. The next day our nurse practitioner says "how many of you drank
 the water last night?" And goes on to say that most of us would probably be sick. However, I have been drinking it and have been fine. The water here come from an argentenian
 well and is very clean. It is only once we start drinking well water on site that I will need to be careful.
Short story, long, I have not had any gastrointenstinal problems so far :)
All of the staff here are wonderful! I have never experienced language teachers like these!! Haha imagine... a spanish teacher who actually wants me to learn!! crazy.
 The security guy is super awesome, also. He is pretty mello but reminds me of the mobsters who smile and pat you on the back while reminding you that after you screw
 up he will slit your throat. HAHA he was like "I live here with my wife and three daughters
but trust that I will travel the country to make sure you are safe.
All of the other volunteers are equally as awesome! They are all really great people and we are having a fabulous time together!
Let's see....what else should I tell you...
Am I having regrets?
I had a moment today as I was dropped off with a family I did not know and suddenly trying to speak a language I don't know very well/ sign to what I mean, where I thought
seriously for a second "what the hell am I doing here?!"
But rest assured it subsided quickly. I will be fine and I feel better that my host sister is confident that I will be fluent in no time.
 It is difficult since no one speaks english butttt it forces me to figure it out.

Are there pets?
So in addition to my large family...they have a TON of pets!! Which is unusual for Paraguayans, so I struck gold!!
They have atleast 3 cats (but I don't think I have counted them all,) 2 dogs plus all of the neighbor pups that wander through the yard and hang out with me,
1 duck, sseveral chickens, one baby bird who just hangs out on everyone's shoulder, and a VERY LARGE frog that ran into me on the porch.
There is talk of 2 very cool things: 1) that rural healt volunteers will be able to have motor cycles on site soon. AND 2.) that we get to choose to have either
 a horse or a bike as a mode of transportation :)
What's the weather like??
HOTTTTTTTTTTT!!!! HAHA and it isn't even as hot as it will be soon! No A/C. But some very convenient fans in my bedroom.
What is your house like?
My family actually has a muy grande casa. I have my own room with a bed and a dresser, and a table. It is connected to my sister's room,
 which I like. We ALL share a bathroom. There are only 2 rooms closed off... the kitchen, dining and sitting area are outside.
They cook over an open flame (no ovens or stoves.) We spend most of our time drinking the tea here called Terere, which is DELICIOUS!!! Basically they put these plant pieces
(everyone makes it a little differently) in the bottom of one metal cup and they have a thermos full of ice cold water (although you can drink it hot in the morning.) It is
a social thing. You sit in a circle while one person pours the terere. They pour the water into the cup with the plant pieces and you drink the entire thing and pass it back.
Then, they fill it again and pass it to the next person. Oh, ya! I forgot to mention you drink it through a metal straw...which is totally gnarly.
Are there a lot of bugs?
Not more than I'm used to, so far. BUT there are a lot of FROGS!!! And you know how I hate those slimy little creatures!!
What's the dating situation like?
We had a weird day today. They basically told all gay volunteers that it was best not to live openly...which I thought was weird. I understand that the culture doesn't
understand it and it might compromise the mission buttt I felt some kind of way about it.
As in the rest of the world, boys will be boys. There are 4 Paraguyan boys my age living in my housing area. They keep giving me that "what's up girl" smile.
haha and one learned how to say "hello. How are you?" in English for me! haha
What else can I hold your procrastination with....
There is a ton of fruit here!! Everyone has guava, orange, and mango trees in their yard. The climate is very similar to SOuth Florida. I was trying to explain that to my host family and they thought it was the weirded thing ever!
I told them that there are mangos in Florida and they thought that Florida must be another country.
--SOOOO my host sister has internet and a webcam!! Haha.. and a cell phone! I realize that this makes it sound like we must live in a nice house and for Paraguay it is.
However, I am still shocked that for where we are and where they live they have these things!! I said "hola!" to her real hermana en Espana over the webcam and it was
totally crazy!
What else can I bore you with....
I had to sign a waiver today to swim in the U.S. embassy pool. haha I think I am making it bigger than it really is in my head. I am imagining giant water slides and
waterfalls but I have a feeling that the embassy isn't all that wonderful.

All in all, I feel fine. I am constantly realizing just how comfortable I am with change. I love not knowing what is going to happen tomorrow. I LOVE that each day is a new day! And I LOVE
that it is my job right now to just enjoy the compania of otros donde de un differente pais con un differente cutural que me. Oh, look. There goes my Spanglish!! Tomorrow I
get to start learning the Paraguayan equivalent of Spanglish which is Spanish and Guarani. Which, by the way, my family already speaks so I am not understanding a lot.
I am very fortunate to have such a wonderful Paraguayan family! They all seem very happy to have me and are very gracious hosts. I couldn't be more pleased with my experience thus
far, I am confident that it will be a great experience. I know that I will struggke with the language but I feel right at home here. They all have a great sense of humor...
and even though we can't understand eachother a lot, we are constantly laughing together and enjoying one another's compania.
I miss you all dearly and I hope all is well in your lives. Please write me back and let me know what is going on in your lives.
I love you all :) Buenos Noches mi amores.

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm so glad you are having such a wonderful time already!! This will be one of the greatest adventures of your life and you should live it up! I miss you so much already and can't wait to get a big girl job so I can fly there and visit you!! Please be safe butthead, I don't wanna have to get Hooligans to go on a rescue mission only 2 weeks into your trip ;)
P.S. if they think you're going to last 2 years without a manfriend in your life, these peacecorps people are crazier than I thought! baha! loveeeeee youuuu

<3 Murrlington

MomDear said...

You're forcing me to learn Spanish, too! Sent you an e-mail, already. Love you!!!

--MomDear

P.S. Turn your "Spell Check" on. :o)

Unknown said...

Friend,
I could not get the smile off my face while reading this post. I can hear your voice telling me all these things. It seems odd that I am not with you on this adventure.... but that is only because we adventure together, most of the time! It was so nice to see you on skype and I am so happy your host familia is perfect! Keep blogging please :)

Love,

Jenna

Unknown said...

Wow! Sounds like you're living the dream. I'm happy for you and all the opportunities you're coming by. I can't wait to read your next blog so keep writing. Miss you!

-Curt

Anonymous said...

donde esta la biblioteca?!


- Mat

Mom&Greg said...

Hola Chica! We are so glad that you have made it there safely and have found a host family you enjoy. If you can please let us know where we can send care packages for you and your host family.
Greg says that he doesnt think the chickens are pets - just dinner.
Stay safe.
Love
2nd Mom & Dad

Katie said...

I love that you and your mom both say: ":0)"

Writing you an e-mail now...

Missing you,

Katie

vteachout said...

I agree with jenna; i can hear your voice & see the excitement & expressions on your face as i read this! im so happy you are having such an amazing time!!! have you seen any bird-eating-spiders yet??? hahaha sorry couldn't resist! lubbb you shmem! i will email you soon. -valsters

CaptainZak said...

Sweet! Your plane didn't crash!

It's awesome you got fit with your host family, sounds like you'll mesh well.

As for the motorcycle vs horse debate, I vote horse. It's like a motorcycle that can bite people.

p.s.
I'll see if I can find some frog repellent to send you

Anonymous said...

It's so exciting to read this, yet it's actually like "hearing" you tell the story of all your adventures so far...and they ARE already adventures. Each new experience, each new day, each new person you meet. You know it's true when they say some people "are just cut out for this sort of thing". I have no doubt you're one of those people. You are ONE amazing young lady, and I can't wait--and will actually look forward--to reading each new entry to come! God Bless and keep you. Love, Kee-Kee (P.S. Oh--and tell them you would rather have a "horsecycle"...you know, just to throw them off. Tell them they're very popular in Florida ;)

Anonymous said...

Hola muchacha! I am glad things are going so well. Donde esta su casa...que cuidad? I will brush up on my spanish so I can follow your adventures. Love you, kid. Be sure.

Anonymous said...

I love this! I can't wait to hear about all the rest of your adventures!! Keep having an amazing time! We miss you! Love, Julie